Loosen the “Golden Handcuffs” Slowly but Wisely
If you joined the yachting industry for adventure, chances are it was the salary that kept you in longer. There’s a reason it’s called the “golden handcuffs,” and it isn’t just the paychecks; everything on board is provided. You can go years without buying a single tube of toothpaste.
“Don’t be afraid to do it. I was so scared to tell people I didn’t want to become a chief officer because the only route to success or the top is becoming a captain. Says who? Own it and run with it,” said Liberty Nogueira, former bosun and founder of OnDeck. When you eventually finish, all the costs of everyday life hit, especially in a world where prices are rising. Former crew emphasise the importance of preparing financially, well before leaving.
Depending on your career move, you may need to start at the lower end of the salary band. If you want to start a new venture or pursue further education, this means investing. The advice? Build up a financial cushion before you leave.
Discover Where You Want To Put Roots Down
It’s not so much about what you’re going to do but where you’re going to do it. When your passport stops filling with stamps, you leave behind a home that constantly moves, with friends and family scattered everywhere. The idea of settling can feel overwhelming.
Some crewmembers head back to their home countries, while others move to places they spent time in along the way. Choosing a location is more than just personal preference. There are logistics to consider, such as residency permits, visa requirements, and tax implications, which influence where you live and work next.
Find your Community and Support Systems
Another challenge is the potential lack of social life. On board, you live and work with the same people 24/7, and leaving this can feel isolating.
Former crew often talk about the contrast between living spontaneously and the reality of planning activities weeks in advance on land. Most recommend finding a local support system, whether that’s joining a sports club, reconnecting with old friends, or beginning a new hobby.
“Be gentle with yourself! I still feel strange on land, but the routine and being around non-yacht people is starting to feel more relaxing instead of feeling out of place like I used to,” said Ciara Farrow, former chief stew/purser and founder of SevenStar.
